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Wednesday, 22 February 2012

people come and go. i want to tell you that's life, because it really is. we learn who to trust, we learn how to fall in love, and we learn how to let go. with life comes obstacles, and those obstacles teach you who you are. the people that left aren't meant to be in your life, and the people you leave.. you aren't meant for them. but the people that you love, have loved, will love, they will consume you of good and bad memories. so even if you know that half the people you meet probably won't stick around, make the best out of the time you have now.
(c)tellmeyoulovemeplease

The main thing I learned? If you aren't willing to put up with a little pain, you won't go far. With every journey, you'll get scratches and bruises. But if you really love it, those scratches will be worth it, and you wouldn't notice a dozen such, because you take the pain with the joy
sometimes i really want you to stay in my life, and other times i'm just wondering why i put myself through this. there are a million things i could ask you that you couldn't even answer. i want to know why you are letting someone slip away when they'd do so much for you.
(c)tellmeyoulovemeplease
Stop thinking you need people - get it out of your head. Just live your life, beautifully. Make yourself happy because you're never promised that you'll find someone who can do that for you. & even if you do find that person - you could loose them. Stop depending on anyone else in your life to determine your happiness and start looking in the mirror at the most important one. Just be patient, & in time you'll come across someone that feels right - & without even knowing it you will have picked someone who compliments you, rather than trying to find someone who completes you
Remember when you were little? Your daddy had you talked into the fact that you were a princess & deserved nothing but the best - he wasn't just telling you that to make you feel special at the time. He wanted you to hold onto that bit of information for the rest of your life, & now is the time to start remembering
People think they know you. They think they know how you're handling a situation. But the truth is, no one knows. No one knows what happens after you leave them, when you're lying in bed or sitting over your breakfast alone and all you want to do is cry or scream. They don't know what's going on inside your head - the mind-numbing cocktail of anger and sadness and guilt. This isn't their fault. They just don't know. And so they pretend and they say you're doing great when you're really not. And this makes everyone feel better. Everybody but you
I can't tell you why the people that have meant the most to me pop up at the weirdest times. But I have a feeling in my heart that those people are meant to be in my life, because no matter how long we don't talk, no matter how much we argue, things go back to normal no matter what
Just pretend you don't care. And don't be surprised when he comes crawling back saying he made a mistake. And if you want to go, go with him again. But make him work for you. Don't be his doormat. Don't let him in the first time he rings the bell. Make him come back every day until you trust him enough. If he doesn't come back after a couple of tries, just let him go. But if he comes back every day, then he's worth it. Trust me, he's worth it
Do your heart a favor, sweetie.. Just turn around and leave. It may not be what you think you want, but it's what you need
Sometimes, by holding on too tight, you end up losing what you were trying so hard to save.
Soap, for example
Fight for the people and the things you love,
no matter what tasks or risks you may face, it will be worth it
The best relationships are when you can lay with each other and just talk about anything and everything
Words are the only weightless things in the world
that could actually make you feel heavy
I miss summer, when every day was like a saturday
fighting your feelings is the most difficult battle
girls love it when you text them,
"good morning beautiful."
you have no idea how much that one little
message will brighten their entire day
fuck love? no, fuck the person who made you think like that
there's a time to kiss her like you love her
and a time to kiss her like you want her
Don't lead a girl on. Stop being a flirt and man up. If you like a girl, tell her. If you just want to be friends, then don't give her the impression that she has a chance with you.
&I would have done anything for you, to show you how much I adored you
You cannot always wait for the perfect time; sometimes you must dare to jump
Every second is a chance to turn your life around
Often it is the most deserving people who cannot help loving those who destroy them

Saturday, 11 February 2012

most of all i'm scared of walking out of this room and never feeling about anyone ever again the way i feel when i'm with you. - dirty dancing
every girl wants a guy that takes the relationship as seriously as she does
I’m in love with you, kid. Even when you make me sob at 2 in the morning. Even when I want to punch you in the face. Even when I give you that look, and ask you why you’re doing this. I love you, boy. It’s stupid and ridiculous, and I don’t even know why, but it’s true. Nobody gets it. Nobody understands. They all tell me that you’re a douchebag, and you’re not worth my time, my tears, my love. And sometimes, I agree. Sometimes I want nothing more than to hate you. But I just can’t fucking do it. Because, I’m sorry to say, I love every single thing about your dumb ass. All I want is you
i want you so bad, i would do anything to have you; i would do anything to claim you as mine. to be able to look at you and tell my friends: "he's the guy that i love with all my heart", and watch you smile back at me and go: "well, she's the girl that i love with all my heart".
Has there ever been a guy that you just couldn't get over no matter what you did? I think your heart is trying to tell you something. Maybe you're meant to be together but he's just too blind to see that
I don't need a perfect relationship, I just need someone who won't give up on me
you smiled, you took my hand, and in that same moment, without you even knowing, you took my heart
if i like you, i don't care how tired i am, or even how late at night it is, i will talk to you
i find myself wanting to waste my friday nights with you
She wants to be YOUR girl, not ONE OF your girls
being faithful to your boyfriend/girlfriend should be common sense
Holding her hand in public is just another way of saying you're proud to have her
one day you're gonna remember me and how much i loved you then you're gonna hate yourself for letting me go
No its not selfish to want someone to need you all you are guilty of is the desire for love, something everyone deserves
i just need to know if its possible for two people to be happy together forever
I think something hard about break ups is the fact that, you're certain you've found the one for you. But then everything ends, and you wonder what went wrong. What could have been so bad, that all the time and effort you invested into the relationship wasn't worth it. Then you think about how you have to go through the entire process again.. with someone else. But the entire time you wonder, is it really worth it? And, yes. Every second of it is worth it
i guess to some extent, you get used to being alone, you get used to not expecting phone calls and having nothing to do at night, you don't expect to turn around to open arms any longer. the small sounds of him have been replaced by silence your thoughts echo through your head, with no one to share them with. all in all, being alone isnt terrible it just hurts like hell
You know, the right guy won't get you to change. He won't subtly pressure you. He won't tell you who you can and can't talk to. he won't hide the fact that you're hanging out. He's not gonna tell you you're wrong for feeling; for being a girl. The right guy will show you off to his friends. He'll take it as slow as you want. He'll only go as far as you're comfortable with. He'll take you out to places, even if it's just a fast food place or the store. He'll actually sit through your stupid girly disney movies with you because he just wants to be with you. The right guy will come along someday, you just gotta tough it out and wait for him. But whatever you do, don't settle for the wrong guy. You deserve so much more
We lose people we love because they are meant to love someone else. We lose them because we are destined to find somebody else. It is a simple fact that is sometimes hard to accept because we are too stupid to let go
chances are, if you give a guy your heart, he'll give it back to you in pieces
you put your arm around my waist and pulled me closer, it didn't feel weird or like we were crossing any lines. it just made sense. it just felt right
Maybe I'm stupid for making myself feel like shit just so he can be happy. Maybe I'm stupid for actually thinking that he cared about me, but maybe he's stupid for not knowing a good thing when it's staring him right in the face
ever have that person in your life that you just can't give up on? the one person that can screw you over time after time, but you always give them another chance there is always another chance waiting for the. the person you know you're better off without but you can't seem to let them go. having this person in your life, it doesn't make you weak, it just means you have a weakness
It's hard when you don't know what causes your sadness. but it's even harder when you know what makes you happy, yet you can't do anything to have it
I don't know if my heart can take this, but i really hope it can, because every second with you makes it worth the risk
did you ever notice that there's a certain line in every song that sticks out because it reminds you of a person that you just can't forget?

Wednesday, 08 February 2012

When it comes to relationships people are always so scared of the what-if's that they forget the what-is. They spend so much time thinking, 'What if I get hurt?' and 'What if it doesn't work out?' that they stop thinking about that things that are already real. They forget the feeling they get when the person they love walks into the room and the excitement that rushes through them when the phone rings because it might be the person they are waiting to hear from. Never let the fear of what-if stop you from letting yourself take a chance on love...because "what if" this is the person you're destined to spend the rest of your life with?
You take a while to fall in love with someone. Trust takes time. You tend to give more than take in relationships. You need your space & privacy. You don't like to be smothered. You're secretly hoping your partner will change for you. You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.
i’m so tired of people needing a reason for doing everything in their lives. do it because you want to. because it’s fun. because it makes you happy
I am perfectly happy being his friend. In fact, I love it. I just have this incredible urge to kiss him that doesn't go away and this feeling that we would be perfect together
There's no doubt about it - breakups suck. But in the first few hours or days or weeks that follow, there's one important truth you need to recognize: some things can't and shouldn't be fixed, especially that loser who dumped you or forced you to dump him. It's over for a reason, and deep down inside you probably know what that reason is
we all need something we consider worth getting up in the morning for. whether it's real or not; healthy or destructive; tangible or false is irrelevant. when you've got nothing to hang onto, deception can seem pretty inviting
I understand the impulse. The impulse to want to put out your hand and want someone to be there at the end of your reach. To want someone to be close to. To want to kiss or touch, even if it's wrong. The point is, you can't control these feelings. Even if they're wrong, they're still there
That was the thing, you never got used to it. You never got used to the idea of someone being gone. Just when you think it's okay, and you think you've accepted it, someone points it out to you, and it hits you all over again, and it's just as shocking as the first time. You put on a good show but i'd be willing to bet that you're suffering more than you let anyone see
It's a trip ya know? When you're a kid, you have this picture of how your life is gonna be, and it never crosses your mind that it's not gonna end up like that
I don't care how far you are from me, or how long it's been since we've talked. I don't care how mad I got at you, or how mad you've been at me. You're still what matters most to me, and I'm never going to give that up
I like when we sit next to each other and your legs fit perfectly against mine. I like when our feet bump and we don’t apologize. I like this comfort. I like this closeness. I like you
if there’s anything i’ve learned in this whole getting over you process, it’s that your always going to mean something to me no matter what happens. your always gonna be somewhere deep down inside me. even when i’m happily married to the man of my dreams, if i were to run into you on the street and those gorgeous blue eyes were to meet mine, my heart would skip a beat because i’ll never forget you and the way you made me feel when we were young & stupidly in love
And the harsh reality of life is that you are going to hurt. You're going to cry over a silly boy - your heart's going to be broken. But you have to pull yourself together so people don't see how vulnerable you are because once people see vulnerability, they take advantage of you. And the whole process starts all over again
a guy out there was meant to be the love of your life, your best friend, your soul mate, the one you can tell your dreams to. he'll smile at you, but he'll never laugh at your heart. he'll brush the hair out of your eyes. send you flowers when you least expect it. he'll stare at you during the movies, even though he paid $8 to see it. he'll call to say goodnight or just cause he is thinkin of you. he'll look in your eyes and tell you, you're the most beautiful girl in the world, and for the first time in your life, you'll believe it
You taught me many things, like how it feels to miss someone so bad it feels like a part of you is missing. I can tell you one thing, now that you have gone I never will forget you. You left your mark

Tuesday, 07 February 2012

We live in a genertaion of not being in love, and not being together. But we sure make it feel like we're together, because we're scared to see each other with somebody else
Stop wasting time lingering over all that you could have, should have and would have done. Stop spending your days thinking of how much better you could do; stop longing for something that has been and always will be out of your reach. Just live the days as they come. Wake up every morning and smile at the wonderful day that awaits you. And when opportunity comes knocking on your door, don't you dare ignore it. Don't run away. Pull yourself together, open the door. Let love in
There it goes again. That heavy feeling in your chest when you don't feel any desire to speak or move. All you want to do is close your eyes and sleep, because the process of being broken is incredibly exhausting. You attempt your best to make your days fulfilling, but no matter how hard you try you can't seem to connect to anyone or anything
Because even though she can't say his name anymore, and just because she never talks about him, doesn't mean he isn't always on her mind. And even though he's not here anymore, doesn't change the fact that he's still locked up in her heart. And even though it's been all this time, he's still managing to tear her apart
Do you miss him at the most happy and fulfilling times of your life? Just because you miss him when the world is quiet and you feel alone, doesn't mean you still care for him. You will miss anyone when you’re lonely. It’s when your life is going great and you still feel that ache in your heart because he isn’t there to see the genuine smile on your face and happiness in your life
You don't get to be mad at me. I have always been there for you. I have gone out of my way for you over and over again. Do you do the same for me? No. Never. And yet I keep my mouth shut and say nothing about it. I am not in any way trying to say I'm perfect. But I honestly believe I have done everything I am capable of doing, to keep you in my life. The more I tried to keep you, the more you pushed me away. I have been more understanding and forgiving with you, than I was ever capable of being with anyone else. I have literally put myself through emotional hell for you. I'm not blaming you for this, because I chose that. I chose to allow you to walk all over me without ever saying a word. I did that because I wanted you in my life so badly. But you don't get to be angry with me because I've finally decided that I can't take it anymore. I can't be the only one trying. It hurts too much. But apparently you don't understand that. I care about you so much. You will always be on my mind. But I don't know if I've ever actually been on yours, and I can't be second best anymore. I'm tired of being second best to everyone. Especially you. So I'm letting this go. Never thought I'd say that, did you? I have to. I have to let this go because I'm not strong enough to handle it anymore. If you want me in my life, you need to prove it to me
I'm not sure where I stand with you. I wish you'd let me know where I am in your life. Even if you completely hate me, I'd rather know than wonder
The worst feeling isn't being lonely, but being forgotten by someone you can't forget
There is always a soft spot in my heart for you; even when you've done wrong, even when you've let me down, even when you couldn't care less
Maybe I'm just afraid. Because honestly, right now, I can't afford another heartbreak
I tried to save you, but I couldn't save you from yourself; so forget it. You're not going to change, and I must have been crazy to think I was the one that could do it

Sunday, 29 January 2012

i hope i cross your mind once in a
while, just so i won't feel pathetic for
thinking of you all the time
a cute thought for those who believe in friendship, it’s not necessary to share every secret between true friends but the thing is that whatever you share should be true
We become attached to what's familiar and sometimes we hold onto things that are safe and predictable even if they are bad for us
I just realized that we're all going to die. We don't know when. We don't know how. We don't know where. But we live as if none of that is true
You may not be perfect, or even close to it, but I love you, and to me, you’re as perfect as you can be
You don’t have to learn how to control your thoughts; you just have to stop letting them control you.
Slow to trust, but I'm quick to love. I push too hard and I give too much. I ain't saying I'm perfect, but I promise I'm worth it
Once upon a time, you and I were best friends. And that means that whenever you need me, I'm here. Any time, anywhere, any place. Forever
You shouldn't have to change for any man. You find a man who will accept you
Every girl wants a guy who she can run up to with her hair a mess,
no makeup and the first thing he says is " You're beautiful."
It's not who you want to spend Friday nights with, it's who you want to spend all day Saturday with
Don't settle. As much as you don't want to be alone, it's better to wait for that perfect person. And you'll finally realize how worth it it was to wait
Leave the ones that didn't fight for you. If they didn't the first time, they never will
My problem is that I can't stay mad. I always end up forgiving people even if they don't deserve it.
I felt special until I saw you talk to everyone like that
Don't fall in love with someone you can live with, fall in love with someone you can't live without
I'm not going to talk to you for awhile. I need you to miss me. I need you to appreciate having me in your life
I love how we're not all kissy all the time. How we can argue and just mess around. We don't have to show other people how much we love eachother, because all that really matters is that you and I both know
Sometimes you just need to be with the person that makes you smile, even if that means waiting awhile
If they can't keep a conversation going, don't expect them to be able to keep a relationship going
Don't say you're happy because everythings alright. Be happy because even when everything's complicated, you're still doing fine
Some people are meant to fall in love with each other but are not meant to be together.
Expect the best, be prepared for the worst, fuck what others think & do your own thing
No one looks back on their life & remembers the nights they got plenty of sleep.

No one looks back on their life & remembers the nights they got plenty of sleep.

I don't care if it's 5 minutes or a whole night, I just want to see you
There's nothing like the deep breathing after laughing that hard. Nothing in the world is like a sore stomach for the right reasons
I'm the type of person that wants good grades but doesn't want to study
Once upon a time, I didn't give a fuck
The naked truth is always better than the best-dressed lie
Instead of being a dick, how about you try & grow one?
Actions>Words
You were the one person I didn't want to become a stranger in my life and now it seems like as days go by, the more we become strangers to one another
And with the windows rolled down and her hair blowin' all around; well, she's a hot southern mess
I think what messes us up the most is that we all have this perfect picture in our minds of how things are supposed to be